When God lays His heavy hand upon us, we have an excellent opportunity of exercising the virtue of humility, and of making great progress in it. There is nothing like a good knockdown blow for teaching us our own nothingness, and for schooling us in submission to God. If we take the chastisement well and do not allow ourselves to rebel against the will of God, but rather make it an occasion for humbling ourselves the more in His sight, we shall acquire more grace from God and advance more in perfection in a day than in months of prosperity and spiritual consolation. How do I bear the trials God sends - well, or ill?
When the time of darkness is upon us and the gloom seems almost intolerable, there is no harm in praying for release from our misery or that God may avert some threatened blow, but the petition must always be accompanied by an act of humility, "Not my will, but Thine be done!" If we are patient, God will certainly send us speedy relief; just when we least expect it, peace will be restored to our souls.
Those trials are intended by God to cleanse our souls, and to root up the pride that still lurks unnoticed by us. The best prayer for us to offer under them, and indeed at all times and at all seasons, is to cry out to God, "Humble me, O God, and I shall be humbled. Burn out of me now in this life all that displeases Thee that I may not have to endure the burning of the life to come!" Happy are those who in all trouble can offer this prayer!
- text from Humility, Thirty Short Meditations by Father Richard Frederick Clarke, SJ